I have fallen in love with the eight year old version of my husband.
This has been a summer of many moves for us. My sister moved. Adam and I moved. Adam's brother moved. And last weekend, Adam's parent's moved.
Along with moving comes, of course, the much needed sorting through of things. So. many. things. (Why do I have this many bottles of old sunscreen? When is the last time I wore this shirt? Where do I put the endless amounts of dirty pennies and safety pins that I seem to be hoarding?)
Adam's parents' move was a bit different from ours though, as they'd lived in the house for 17 years and were moving 850 miles away. Oh, and his mom saved everything. I held his baby socks and rifled through many a box of toys and action figurines. (Are old Power Rangers toys reallllly that collectible?)
Then, when sorting through a large pile of old school projects, I found his third grade journal.
From what I can gather, his third grade teacher was fantastic. They wrote animal musicals, rapped about third grade life, and wrote in their journal EVERY DAY. Most entries, I have to admit, are cute but not revelatory. (I like dinosaurs. Dinosaurs were huge. I think dinosaurs were neat. I like the Tricerotops. Tyrannasaurs was neat.)
However, third grade was also the year that Adam's family learned they would be moving from Georgia to North Carolina, so there were several entries like this: "I don't want to move! I have to move to North Carolina. I will miss all my friends. I'll have to go to a new school." or "I want my dad. He is up in North Carolina. I miss him."
As much as moving makes me hate things and want to be an uber organized minimalist, I have to admit that I loved sifting through these things that represented the different stages in my husband's life. We're such self-centered creatures that we imagine that people and places only exist in the time we experience them. In relationships, there are only certain parts of our significant other's past that we really care about. (Exactly how many girls did you kiss before me???)
Of course, I saw bits and pieces of the Adam I know and love today, but finding that journal also opened my eyes to parts of Adam that I had never known. An airplane/car/ dinosaur-loving, Power Ranger-watching, lego-playing kid that I completely and utterly adore. I didn't think it was possible to love the current Adam any more than I already do but--as the saying goes--you learn something new everyday.
Today's recipe is perfect for summer because it can be ready in less than ten minutes. There's no cooking involved, and considering it's a salad, it requires minimal chopping.
I first made a version of this salad four years ago with my cousin when we were visiting my grandparents in Florida. She's a vegetarian and makes protein-filled salads like this frequently. If you've never tried hearts of palm before, I encourage you to try them in this salad. They're a vegetable harvested from the inner core of certain palm trees, and they come canned. Hearts of Palm are very mild in flavor, and honestly, I think I enjoy them most for the texture they brings to a salad. I first ate them on salads in Italy, but I have been buying them here in the U.S. ever since. You can find them on the canned vegetable aisle, and though they may be difficult to spot amongst the cans of green beans, most grocery stores have them.
The original version of this salad has canned corn in it as well, but seeing as I've overdone it with fresh corn recently, and seeing as I have a documented problem with avocado, I decided to use that instead. This salad is light, but filling, slightly sweet, but savory, and incidentally--despite being a salad--a great vehicle for dipping tortilla chips.
Finally, since I'm talking about discoveries today, I wanted to share a few finds from the web. I'm constantly overwhelmed by the number of beautiful food blogs out there, (You can find the ones I love here.) but this week I discovered some that blew me away.
The First Mess may make you question everything about your life. Why don't I live out in the country in Ontario between a peach orchard and a vineyard? Why don't I make and photograph exquisite vegan food and eat only vegetables?
The writing on Local Milk is vulnerable and achingly beautiful, especially this post. Be ready to have your life view changed.
Hearty Salad with Black Beans, Tomatoes, Avocado & Hearts of Palm
1 can of black beans, rinsed and drained
1 can of hearts of palmed, sliced
2 medium tomatoes, chopped into small pieces (or 1 pint cherry tomatoes, halved)
1 1/2 ripe avocados, sliced
1/2 cup red onion, diced
1/2 cup fresh cilantro
1 tbsp lemon juice
1/2 tbsp olive oil
1/2 tsp white wine vinegar
1/4 tsp cumin
salt and pepper to taste
In a medium bowl, mix together black beans, hearts of palm, tomatoes, avocado, onion and cilantro.
In a separate, small bowl, whisk together the lemon juice, olive oil, vinegar, and cumin. Pour dressing over salad and toss. Add salt and pepper to your taste. Refrigerate for up to 3 hours.
*Some fresh summer corn or a can of mexicorn would be a great addition to this salad. I've been over-doing it on summer corn lately, which is why I did not add it here.